tmw,
If you want to be a man-pleasing doormat, go right ahead. It's your prerogative.
As a gay person, I reserve the right to take away your right to use your sexuality as a marketing ploy. If it means hindering your career, so be it. We in the gay community don't take kindly to women who go bi to please sleazy men. It's a distortion of human sexuality.
We fully intend to attribute the blame to women, and not just sleazy men. Deal with it, sweetie.