interesting thought, not enough time to really get all granular with each hole/friend scenario out there. i don't even have an idea that i could replace one of the friends most important to me with some other candidate out there like filling a pro roster out at trade deadline or something. i'm not old, but every year it's easier to realize the closest friends aren't exactly expanding in number anymore but pussy's always got a high trading volume, obviously everyone gets different kinds for different wants and abilities of securing said hole and whatnot.

probably the only way i'm fucking a friend who i know i'd be devestated to devestate would be if for the chick and i to agree we're so madly in love that life apart would be desperately unhappy and we'd have to speak to the dude together to explain that we were fucking him over but being super-cool about it or something preposterous.

just a very attractive s.o. of a friend? those situations come up, but it's not very appealing to pursue quality pussy just because it's made itself available-there's that same girl out there your dick's going to feel the same or better in that doesn't come with the really damaging baggage of both losing a good friend AND THE FALLOUT he's going to create even if he just lets it out to another good friend of yours you predate inside a small-knit group which for lack of better terminology than the ad agencies selling beer KILLS your "guy code" credibility.

i've stopped talking to some guys i used to see pretty reguarly because him being the guy who lied to his own girlfriend by throwing another friend under the bus for something i'm sure seemed harmless at the moment.

you can't allow that guy back in the true inner circle, i didn't really address it specifically but he knew why he'd effectively been blackballed. so the pussy has to be fucking life-changing.