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But it should always be gravy on top of your relationship with each other. If tomorrow we decided to be monogamous, that would be fine as our relationship is strong and we love each other. And our sex life just between the two of us is still hot after 13+ yrs. So this is just a little added naughty fun we like to do from time to time.



This is pretty much the way my friend and his wife are. They're in an "open relationship" but have extremely strict ground rules they follow and each of them has only been with two other people during their marriage.