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I know I can separate sex and emotions. However, he says he can but I am not completely sold on that seeing as he has been with few people and is a bit younger than I am.

I thought this would be the perfect place to ask seeing as an open relationship / swinging is not a conventional thing and society looks down on those kinda things and most people posting here are sexually aware and open to freakish things.

Just curious how it has worked for others in the past or hasn't worked.



My wife nd I have been swinging for almost 7 years now and life is grand!

The first year or so was rough, as we were trying to find our boundaries and figure out what we want from the lifestyle but once we settled into our groove it has been smooth sailing.

For us, we never play seperately... we are always in the same room as each other and my wife won't do full swap (penetration) with te other guy until we know the othr couple pretty well. She also doesn't give anal up for anyone but me.

She doesn't impose the same rules on me, but I won't fuck another woman until my wife feels comfortable enough to have sex with the dude.

Essentially we are "soft swap" for the first date or two with another couple or at house parties.
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