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Swinging is only a viable option if you both are open with each other, can set the jealousy aside, and are willing to play by he rules.

There is an adjustment period too, until you settle into the groove of how you as a couple are going to play based on the boundaries you set. Generally speaking, what you think you are going to be down for probably isn't what you will fall into after the first six or so months. So be ready to adapt a little...

this! I've been in an open relationship for 13+ yrs. We started slow with a lot of rules but now we are totally open. If I'm out of town and he tells me he got action from a hot chick I'm happy for him. Its a turn on for me and vice versa. But a lot of people go the other way andfind they weren't pk with things. They thought they would be. Go VERY slow. Always be honest and always respect each other. If one of you decides they aren't ok with something its done. No arguing no pressure. You each come FIRST. Anything else is gravy. That's the only way this will work. IF it will work. It doesn't for a lot of people.
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