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#483425 - 04/08/10 09:52 AM
Open Relationships
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Bukkake Boy
Registered: 01/25/05
Posts: 737
Loc: Wisconsin
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So the subject came up last night that my boyfriend would like an open relationship. Now... I was married while doing porn and that was completely cool. I fucked other people, he didn't. Just the way I like it hehe. Anyone currently in an open relationship or had experience with them that would like to share their thoughts on this?? I play well with others but not so sure Im sold on someone I am emotionally attached to fucking other people.
Advice???
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#483426 - 04/08/10 09:56 AM
Re: Open Relationships
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AC Cream Wannabe
Registered: 06/14/03
Posts: 449
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Now... I was married while doing porn and that was completely cool. I fucked other people, he didn't.
but not so sure Im sold on someone I am emotionally attached to fucking other people.
Advice???
Advice? You mean other than pointing out that you're a gross little hypocrite that was "cool" with porn while "married" (and I would assume marriage to you meant "emotional attachment" unless you married him for his money) but now that the boot's on the other foot, all of a sudden your panties are in a twist.
Jesus, why are some people allowed to breed? 
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#483427 - 04/08/10 09:59 AM
Re: Open Relationships
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Bukkake Boy
Registered: 01/25/05
Posts: 737
Loc: Wisconsin
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I don't plan on breeding! =) And yes I realize it is very hypocritical to want to be allowed to fuck around but not the other person. Sex is very important to both of us and just don't want shit to become routine.
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#483428 - 04/08/10 10:04 AM
Re: Open Relationships
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AC Cream Wannabe
Registered: 06/14/03
Posts: 449
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So doing the below was fine when you were "married", but your "boyfriend" is not allowed to pop on someone else without you throwing a hissy fit about it.
Keep going. I love it when whores try to use logic. It's usually good for a few laughs
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#483429 - 04/08/10 10:10 AM
Re: Open Relationships
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Human Garbage
Registered: 04/02/09
Posts: 1541
Loc: Mississippi
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For every person that wins the lottery, millions of people loose money. Some of those people (maybe even most of those people) can't afford to loose the money they waste on buying lottery tickets.
Every study that has ever looked at open relationships acknowledges that there are the occasional lottery winners for whom everything works out fine, but that is "one in a million" and virtually every couple who enters into an open relationship is ruined as a direct result of the open relationship.
No, I've never been in an open relationship, and I never will be. On the other hand, the easiest way to get out of a relationship I want to end (just did it a few weeks ago as a matter of fact) is to float the suggestion that we should consider seeing other people. If the chick is stupid enough to go along with it, then fine, I'll start seeing the woman I'm really interested in dating and still have the occasional booty call on the back burner with the dummy who went along with it if things don't work out with the new girl.
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#483430 - 04/08/10 10:39 AM
Re: Open Relationships
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AC Cream Wannabe
Registered: 01/08/08
Posts: 554
Loc: Wash D.C.
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Yeah, this is pretty hypocritical... but I will play along.
Just to be clear, when you mean "open relationship" you mean you each ging tyour own way and doing your own thing and not 'swinging'?
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#483431 - 04/08/10 10:55 AM
Re: Open Relationships
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Gay For Pay
Registered: 12/24/07
Posts: 997
Loc: FL
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If you arent 100% ok with it, dont do it. Of course, that also applies to you. If HE isnt ok with you fucking other people...even if its work...then you cant do it either. You need to have respect for each other and BOTH be ok with everything if an open relationship is going to work
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#483432 - 04/08/10 11:10 AM
Re: Open Relationships
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Bukkake Boy
Registered: 01/25/05
Posts: 737
Loc: Wisconsin
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No I don't mean each going our own way and just fucking other people. there would be boundaries. More towards swinging.
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#483433 - 04/08/10 11:20 AM
Re: Open Relationships
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Internet Tough Guy
Registered: 01/26/09
Posts: 898
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Hi Mandy. I would say if you're feeling reservations from the jump maybe you shouldn't do it.  Double standards in a relationship will never work out either. IMO
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#483435 - 04/08/10 01:16 PM
Re: Open Relationships
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Porn Jesus
Registered: 09/01/08
Posts: 9782
Loc: Hillbilly Holler
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The bad news is that if he wants to fuck other girls he probably will no matter what you say. The good news is now you know. Time to find another boyfriend if you're not down with it.
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#483438 - 04/08/10 04:22 PM
Re: Open Relationships
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Porn Jesus
Registered: 09/23/04
Posts: 10321
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The bad news is that if he wants to fuck other girls he probably will no matter what you say. The good news is now you know. Time to find another boyfriend if you're not down with it.
That advice is actually spot-on.
Edit: And don't fall down a manhole. Hang around and post more. You're a good read and were a good poster around here back when you were active.
Edited by Bornyo (04/08/10 04:23 PM)
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#483439 - 04/08/10 04:46 PM
Re: Open Relationships
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Porn Jesus
Registered: 12/28/07
Posts: 4856
Loc: The 4th International
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Fuck around as much as you can, have unprotected bloody sex with as many crack-whores, tranny-fuckers and what-have-you, perform the most ridiculous circus-acts, while smearing bodily fluids up your nose and in your eyes. Keep doing this as long as you are able to do. Quote:
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I fucked other people, he didn't. Just the way I like it hehe.
Pathetic.
Indeed.
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#483440 - 04/08/10 04:59 PM
Re: Open Relationships
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Porn Jesus
Registered: 09/23/04
Posts: 10321
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I don't know what's up with all you haters. I just assume you are young and naive and if you can run a whore off by posting "kill yourself" you think you have improved the gene pool.
Guess what? Just because they leave xpt doesn't mean they went and dove in a manhole or slit their wrists. You can't improve the gene pool from your keyboard. So let the girls stay, if only for the crazy shit they say sometimes.
If you want to improve society at large go dump nonoxyl-9 in the domestic water supply but if you want to improve your experience at xpt be inclusive of all the kooks, freaks and pervs.
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#483441 - 04/08/10 06:59 PM
Re: Open Relationships
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Porn Icon
Registered: 02/04/05
Posts: 3499
Loc: The Dirty: 480
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Open relationships can be a lot of fun, and also a great way to blow up a relationship. There's your yin and yang, take it how you want it.
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#483442 - 04/08/10 08:32 PM
Re: Open Relationships
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Pervert
Registered: 09/06/03
Posts: 2042
Loc: Ceara's bunny cage
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So the subject came up last night that my boyfriend would like an open relationship. Now... I was married while doing porn and that was completely cool. I fucked other people, he didn't. Just the way I like it hehe. Anyone currently in an open relationship or had experience with them that would like to share their thoughts on this?? I play well with others but not so sure Im sold on someone I am emotionally attached to fucking other people.
Advice???
Its great that you can talk to each other so openly. I don't think working in porn counts so much as being in an open relationship. If you're not OK with it I think he will be happy with that 
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#483445 - 04/09/10 12:52 AM
Re: Open Relationships
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Sex Slave Trader
Registered: 09/20/05
Posts: 1326
Loc: Yosisterisawhore, CA
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I just bit one of my nails off too deeply. Dammit.
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#483448 - 04/09/10 01:50 AM
Re: Open Relationships
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Kurt Lackwood's Fluffer
Registered: 04/11/08
Posts: 1265
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So, your porn career fucking other dudes was perfect as long as he wasn't fucking anybody else. Now, the dude who was OK with you fucking other dudes for work now wants some sort of payback for you fucking other dudes, with he having the same freedom as you had fucking.
And you have a fucking problem with this?
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#483449 - 04/09/10 04:20 AM
Re: Open Relationships
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AC Cream Wannabe
Registered: 01/08/08
Posts: 554
Loc: Wash D.C.
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Swinging is only a viable option if you both are open with each other, can set the jealousy aside, and are willing to play by he rules.
There is an adjustment period too, until you settle into the groove of how you as a couple are going to play based on the boundaries you set. Generally speaking, what you think you are going to be down for probably isn't what you will fall into after the first six or so months. So be ready to adapt a little...
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#483450 - 04/09/10 04:41 AM
Re: Open Relationships
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Porn Fucking Master
Registered: 11/04/05
Posts: 3509
Loc: Pit of Despair
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asking a porn forum for relationship advice is like asking a retard to do your business taxes.
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#483451 - 04/09/10 06:47 PM
Re: Open Relationships
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Porn Jesus
Registered: 03/22/07
Posts: 5186
Loc: Joshua Tree National Park
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Or asking Panzer about exercise or nutritional science.
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#483452 - 04/09/10 07:00 PM
Re: Open Relationships
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Bukkake Boy
Registered: 01/25/05
Posts: 737
Loc: Wisconsin
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1. I have been divorced over three years.
2. My boyfriend and I have no issues being honest with each other.
3. I prefer retards to do my taxes. Are you available to do mine next year??
I know I can separate sex and emotions. However, he says he can but I am not completely sold on that seeing as he has been with few people and is a bit younger than I am.
I thought this would be the perfect place to ask seeing as an open relationship / swinging is not a conventional thing and society looks down on those kinda things and most people posting here are sexually aware and open to freakish things.
Just curious how it has worked for others in the past or hasn't worked.
Now I am going to drown myself in a bathtub full of vodka after I slit my wrists because I am so emotionally distraught over all this.... Pffffft right...
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#483457 - 04/11/10 01:58 AM
Re: Open Relationships
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Porn Jesus
Registered: 01/25/04
Posts: 8662
Loc: In a k1ng like state of medioc...
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It doesnt work, Then again the people who want to live this lifestyle probably aren't capable of having a relationship in the real sense, so go and do whatever he wants its clear he is the one pushing this and chances are you cant do much better, ride the wave and get out when it washes you on shore.
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#483458 - 04/11/10 09:19 AM
Re: Open Relationships
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Max Hardcore Prison Bitch
Registered: 05/03/09
Posts: 163
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Well Mindy, all I can say is ALWAYS be prepared for your partner to wanna be exclusive with someone else through an open relationship. I'm in one now and we are happy, but I have an open mind to the possibility she might fall for someone she's just fucking.
If you ain't down with anything he's doing, tell him. If he carries on, move on...
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#483459 - 04/11/10 12:18 PM
Re: Open Relationships
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Porn Jesus
Registered: 09/07/05
Posts: 14160
Loc: NYC
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No fucking way would I put up with an 'open relationship.' You wanna see other women, go get a hooker for an hour and STFU. No way are you dating other women nor am I dating/fucking other men.
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#483462 - 04/11/10 02:58 PM
Re: Open Relationships
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Bukkake Boy
Registered: 04/01/07
Posts: 717
Loc: Off the mortal coil
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But it should always be gravy on top of your relationship with each other. If tomorrow we decided to be monogamous, that would be fine as our relationship is strong and we love each other. And our sex life just between the two of us is still hot after 13+ yrs. So this is just a little added naughty fun we like to do from time to time.
This is pretty much the way my friend and his wife are. They're in an "open relationship" but have extremely strict ground rules they follow and each of them has only been with two other people during their marriage.
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#483466 - 04/13/10 11:32 AM
Re: Open Relationships
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Porn Jesus
Registered: 09/20/05
Posts: 9181
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I don't know what's up with all you haters. I just assume you are young and naive and if you can run a whore off by posting "kill yourself" you think you have improved the gene pool.
Guess what? Just because they leave xpt doesn't mean they went and dove in a manhole or slit their wrists. You can't improve the gene pool from your keyboard. So let the girls stay, if only for the crazy shit they say sometimes.
If you want to improve society at large go dump nonoxyl-9 in the domestic water supply but if you want to improve your experience at xpt be inclusive of all the kooks, freaks and pervs.
This is one of the five best posts in the history of this message board. Easily better than the "dr pornz" disclaimer.
Look it up.
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#483467 - 04/13/10 08:24 PM
Re: Open Relationships
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Porn Jesus
Registered: 01/02/05
Posts: 5750
Loc: ATLANTIC CITY
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My "sixth sense" regarding whores always lit up whenever I blab or otherwise communicate with Mandy, she is cool, nice, kinda smart, and charmingly slutty.
I'm depressed she has a boyfriend, but hopeful since she still wants to fuck other people. That means my handlebars may yet wind up her hole before I croak. Boola Boola....Boola fuckin Boola!
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#483471 - 04/14/10 03:11 PM
Re: Open Relationships
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Porn Jesus
Registered: 09/01/08
Posts: 9782
Loc: Hillbilly Holler
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Nah Burg would probably abstain or lie about and you fuckers would split the winnings. The turnip wagon has already passed and I wasn't on it.
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#483473 - 04/14/10 04:26 PM
Re: Open Relationships
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Porn Jesus
Registered: 07/15/05
Posts: 5290
Loc: Dayton
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The turnip wagon has already passed and I wasn't on it.
Is that because you just fell off of it?
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#483474 - 04/14/10 05:57 PM
Re: Open Relationships
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Porn Jesus
Registered: 01/02/05
Posts: 5750
Loc: ATLANTIC CITY
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burg is a sucker and history is doomed to repeat itself.
Accepting shit is something I have had to do since Birth, so that skill serves me well in coming here, entertaining myself (and others) while laughing and / or avoiding everything Monks slings my way.
But I have to ask....how am I a sucker? I think I have been open and honest about who I am and what I do and, most importantly, WHY I do it...
i KNOW there is no fucking way a (attractive) woman would allow me to jerk off into her mouth if there was not some exchange involved, or she felt she could (or will) manipulate me over time to cough up stuff (money, Pills, investment advice, Resume writing, and/or cooking lessons, to name a few...) I know this, so I reconcile the books, pay what i think she's worth, and everyone is at least satisfied, if not downright happy (depending on the strength of the pill.) I can be friends/pals, like I am with Mandy, but I know Mandy would never delve into a conventional relationship (open or not) with Burg, not unless I bought her a kickass wardrobe for her career or something, and that is NOT a slam on Mandy, it is actually a compliment.
Let me put it another way, If I were, say, Holly Randall, no fucking way would I touch my Burg penis unless I first presented her with her own Horse ranch....and not that I really have a choice in the matter, but I am cool with that, and anyway, I know that Holly likes me as a friend even with my dysfunctional weirdness.
All women and whores are unique and different as much as they are the same. Gia likes my writing (or at least the way I used to write when motivated...) But there is no way in hell she'd allow me down her hatch unless I provide some imaginative, and servicey, gifts on a regular basis...still, she might once in a while wheel me through the mall when I need a new suit or something.
I refuse to believe you are a hypocrite Monkey....so why do you detest me so much? I'll sleep and sleep well no matter what you say, but I think i deserve an answer (as do the rest of the posters here on XPT, all 9 of them...)
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