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Hmm, why is that? I mean if a person murders one person or 15 they are still a murderer. So why is it an issue if they have done many but not if they have done a handful?



I think Ted Bundy was a different kind of murderer than, say, Lana Turner's daughter but to answer your questions...

When someone has fixed criteria like "you must be large and black" or "you must be 18 and Asian", he or she is a fetishist of sorts, and fetishists can't form real relationships.

I just noticed Charmane Star is your perfect 10. She does interracial, doesn't she?






Well if they lived by those set of standards then they wouldnt be dating you to begin with, right?

As for your second point, im not going to try to pretend there isnt a double standard when it comes to men and women dating outside of their own race, its perfectly acceptable for a guy to date an asian woman, while revolting for a woman to date an asian man. Its why im interested in the woman's point of view on it. Oddly if they dated a euro or one of the upper class latin countries (spain,etc) thats ok, just mexicans, blacks and asians are a no no.

My last girlfriend was eurasian and she had dated asian men in the past and that didnt bother me at all, maybe because it was expected, I don't know, its a weird thing to understand let alone explain. Or it could be because I didnt really care about her, but I think if I did it still wouldnt bother me, I mean my instant reaction (inside of course) wasn't of disgust.
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