No. Most guys I know aren't the sole payer for the dates.

They share the expense with the girl. No necessarily going dutch on the bill - that isn't common. But share expenses.

One time they buy, one time the young lady buys, or one pays the bar tab and one for dinner, one for the cab and one for the movie, etc.






And, others call picking girls up at the bar "dating".




The only guys I know who are the sole payers of "dates" are the two married ones whose wives don't work.



Who am I to judge?