Darra you forget something important. Death happens to the living. The dead do not care but the effect of their deaths can be felt by many.

Why can't I feel angry? What he did made the people who knew him feel the whole range of emotions. He feels nothing, great he is at peace but he threw many people into having very conflicted feelings.

Just trying to say that people who die leave behind a lot of confused people who are not dead and just saying "oh he is at peace now" doesn't do a damn thing to explain what really happened to the people who are still alive.