Quote:


I think you are both onto something and way off base. First of all, I don't see how marrying an (ex) porn star can be detrimental to your career.



It is my fault for not doing a better job of laying out the dilemma in my invented scenario.

Could you use your imagination and invent a situation (no matter how fantastical) where a fictional person (not yourself) has a job that might suffer (either because of clients, co-workers, or bosses) if they married a woman who has pornographic pictures and movies readily available on the internet?

So far nobody responding on this thread can even conceive of such a situation. Am I really so far off base? Could President Obama still have been elected if he was married to a porn actress? What if she did bestiality porn? What about your local pastor? What about the CEO of Proctor & Gamble? An FBI or CIA agent? A junior executive whose boss is a born again christian? An advertising executive whose clients include "wholesome" family values companies? An army general being considered for a fourth star? An upper class family in New England whose father is the president of the uptight country club? Anybody with a mother?

You really can't imagine a life where this sort of thing matters? Nobody else can either? It is easier to imagine getting married to a porn star than having a career or life where that would be a negative thing?

It is one thing to respond saying that to a specific person it does not matter (I can get that), but the responses from people who can't imagine how it could possibly matter to anybody are a bit unexpected.
_________________________
--Some of us look for The Way in opium and some in God, some of us in whiskey and some in love. It is all the same Way and it leads nowhither.