I went to Shelley's booth to shoot her during EroticaLA last year. I had never met her in person, though she recognized me right away and called me Gia. She said, "I know you say some bad things about me on the internet, but I want you to know God loves you and I love you."
She was very nice, and I was nice in return and never backed down from anything I've said online. It's still confused as to how she actually helps people leave porn other than a shoulder to cry on and donations and I told her that. I gave a few suggestions and she wasn't defensive. My 5 minutes with her was affable but she could tell I wasn't joining Camp Lubben anytime soon. Or ever.
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"What I do know is that if Karen Carpenter and Mama Cass Elliot had shared that sandwich they'd both be alive today." -Michael K