I now have a bone to pick with rah rah female empowerment Violet Blue. She said porn's appeal to women is because there is a part of all women who want to be desired, want to feel the empowerment of being sexy, etc. I was shaking my head yes the entire time. UNTIL...Violet concluded, "for their husbands."

WRONG. What about for ourselves? Is female lust and desire only acceptable when it's for men? I think not.

I'm paraphrasing what Violet said. I'm not a stenographer. But I found it very disheartening. Sidenote: I saw the back of Oprah's head nodding yes as well. And Cum Stains is right. Oprah is not buying any of this as she seems very uneasy with why women would want to watch porn at all. She seemed to come around a little by the end of the show, but still uneasy.