Fuck what everybody else thinks, Just get in and lift. The gains will come. So long as you're pushing yourself you'll get results. It's natural to want to compare your lifts to others, but it is pointless. And a good chunk of certain lifts (esp. bench) depends alot on how your body is built (eg short forearms, barrel chest) and not so much on overal strength.

nothing beats pushing weight, my man...
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