i've long admired Gigi, from a distance. not long after i signed up here (god has it really been almost a year) she called me a fag. then she PM'd "you're just fragile enough, i bet all too often, people look right past you like you're a piece of furniture." it was pretty explosive- a kind of exalted super-truth. i shaved my head and began to seek answers, in the strangest of things. one day i looked in the mirror, and wept. what i saw changed me forever.