Since you ask...

In general, I don't handle (new) people well. If you haven't noticed that in 4 years of conversing with me in Vegas & LA, I don't know what to tell you.

I have the gift of gab, which doesn't suit everyone, but I don't necessarily warm up to people I don't know. Moreso, I'm shy as fuck around chicks, especially those I find attractive, probably not the only person you've met or know who is like that. Getting laid isn't a real deal breaker for me, so the "player" thing isn't for me either; and outside of a stripper blowing me incidentally while getting a private dance, I'll be damned if I'm paying for sex.