Now I have to use the term "personal-life" in the rule because hey, I might do an adult movie here and there and will definitely be doing webcam shows (yea they're solo but I still consider that sex with myself - hehe).

So everyone else gets to bang you but your potential fiance,that sounds really well thought out.You can just make some popcorn and slip in a DVD of one of the porn movies you have made and sweetly whisper in his ear "See sugar, marry me and you can get some of that yourself" I would suggest you tell him that while you are getting DPed or doing a romantic blowbang with 5 or more black dudes that have dicks that look like a black radiator hose.