Well, I'll be honest, I don't think I understood much of what you were saying. But, if you were asserting that men and women aren't different, I'm afraid the rest of the known universe and I must modestly disagree.

A comedian (can't remember the name) once said, "When it comes to sex, the difference between men and women is like the difference shooting a bullet and throwing it."

Or, as I have said before, a minnow and a whale may both get hungry, but that does not mean they have the same appetite or want to eat the same things.