E.Y.Davis might have a problem.

Men and women aren't different in their personalities. They just get brainwashed differently until they decide that no more conditioner is needed, disregard the matter as non-existent or become part of some meager alternative circle to find out that certain annoyances merely are named and justified differently there, where the cool people hang. Societal nonsense is deep like a toilet and technical like a fork. Those not only pretending to not give a shit about anything fare better. Really.

Men and women watch porn, get comfortable with it, hypocrites. When John thinks his shit is too rough for Jane to handle, he is a deluded mental wreck with a partner who believes too much of what is pretended to be acceptable, but not really practiced. What is fine and what is not is generally the opposite of what is pretended to be. It is very simple.

Remainders of an upbringing full of lies and faked ideals will be found anywhere in varying degrees. Puritanical morality is a disease to be eradicated. Its preachers fuck around, fuck their children, fuck other people's children, rape, abuse and take illegal drugs just like the rest of the farm. The attitude is the same, the amount of phony bullshit is different.

People who are desperate enough to be in a relationship with someone dictating the terms for pussy, anus, mouth or dick usage in correlation with porn consumption are fucked up.
People who think that they should be enough for their partner, from whom is demanded not to watch porn, are insecure idiots analogising themselves with a piece of the entertainment industry.

Please stop discussions not including core matters in favour of fascade. Now.