Maybe my idea of "a relationship" is different from yours. Are you talking about a relationship where you live with the person or is this someone you only see once in a while.

How do you live with someone and they don't know what kind of porn you watch? Are you on some sneaking around steaze when she's off to work?
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I hit her with the hammer on top of the head. She made a lot of noise and kept on making noise, so I hit her again.