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Thats kinda weird that you'd put women who dont mind if their boyfriends/husbands watch porn or watching it themselves in the same category as prostitutes, swingers and porn stars. Vast minority? Maybe in mega prude ville, population: the only women you know. I'd reevaluate that madonna/whore complex you got going on there.

This one guy I dated for like, a second, stands out above all the rest in that he totally made me feel like the dirtiest whore ever. I went through his computer one time to see what kind of porn he liked and I came across this video, it was of this girl playing the piano and slowly stripping naked. That was it. His internet history was full of pro-amateur soft core solo girl sites. It was like his sexual interested never evolved past his 12 year old mind. I ended up showing him his first hardcore movie ever, he asked me, "where's the cheesy music?"



Well, actually I was trying to group them together, sure, but I was going more for a spectrum from mild (watches porn) to more intense (makes porn) not suggest that watching porn is the same thing as being in one.

Yes, it is a "Madonna/Whore" complex. It is also good common sense dating advice. Believe it or not, most women are not turned on by guys who watch porn. I am sure some women love the idea that their boyfriend is a huge Max Hardcore fan, but most aren't.

I think a better analogy is what do you tell your wife when she asks if you think she looks fat and ugly when she is 8 months pregnant. You may want to have an honest, loving relationship where you can tell each other the truth about anything, but no matter what you really think, you better tell her she looks beautiful. That is just common sense relationship advice.

If your girlfriend asks you if "these pants make my ass look too big", you may (or may not) think they do, but it is bad dating advice to tell her that they do.

If your girlfriend asks you what kind of porn you watch, it is good dating advice to tell her you really aren't that in to porn, and you look at the occasional Playboy whether that is true or not.

These are just my opinions, if you think it is a good idea to leave your porn movies on the shelf with your other dvd's and keep your eastern European piss magazines on your coffee table when you bring your dates home, that's your prerogative, I was just askin'.

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