Sorry coke the 24x7 posts in the OP are pretty damning but you're probably just taking longer than most to flare out. We've all been there. Tighten it up, get in and get out quicker. Nothing is so important.
@Lou: who's the soft touch with the chink ava shadowing you like the hunchback in 300? Did you deny his fight club app and now its like a thing?