Since you asked for an explanation I'll try.

I think people are calling you gay for several reasons. The only one I am going to address here is that you asked about how/when/whatever other guys jacked off.

The reasoning seems obvious to me but since you don't seem to know:

No guy on this board wants to talk about jacking off with you or any other dudes.

Simple as that.

There are other openly gay members here who never get flamed like this (Cum Stains). So don't worry about it. But you asked a question about male pube grooming then followed up by asking about how other guys jerk off.

And you wonder where the hate came from? It was predictable. Saw it coming from miles away.

The hate:
You can see the turn. People were obviously okay with your grooming question. But seriously why did you ask about jerking off right afterward? You might be curious but this isn't XXXPenisTalk. We talk about porn and women and the world. If you want to talk dicks you should already know this isn't the place.