Sometimes it just tears regardless. I've known girls who were never in sports, never fingered, nor even used a tampon and they still didn't bleed the first time even though it still hurt like hell.

Just wanted to clear that up before some of you misinformed people deprive your daughters of gymnastics classes.
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