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He had a second chance to do the right thing after the first time he saw a dog fight, he had a third chance after the second time he saw a dogfight, he had a fourth chance after the third time he saw a dogfight, etc, etc. etc, etc...



Yeah, it sounds like you somehow missed something on the way to the office yesterday.

What a 2nd chance means is that you fucked up, you did something horrible with your life. You've been through the ringer, paid prices nobody wants to pay and are now looking to walk the straight and narrow. Coke, not before you've paid the price, but after.

Maybe a more common example would give you an idea of what a 2nd chance is. It doesn't work like, that coke addict had a 1st chance the first time he shoved a straw up his nose. A 2nd chance the 2nd time... It's when he figures out he's a fucked up loser, gone through the wrenching process of rehab, has some time straight under his belt, and is now asking for a favor. That favor is the 2nd chance.

You keep mentioning crimes that any one on a porn board wouldn't care about, marijuana and the one with real evil intent, jay-walking. Helping someone out who's never done anything really wrong in the 1st place, that ain't a 2nd chance.

But, look. If you wanna stand like you're the judge and know what all can be forgiven and what can't, by all means, have yourself a ball holding onto the hate.

I've already said anything I know that would possibly change your mind. You kind of dragged me back in with your stupid definition of what a 2nd chance is.

If you don't believe in 2nd chances, except for limited instances where your personally judge okay, just say you don't believe in 2nd chances. 2nd chances are about forgiveness, not about you scrutinizing with your wealth of knowledge as to what all the answers are.




I have never read more self-righteous bullshit in my life.

You don't get to come to me and demand that I hand out forgiveness or second chances or anything else by your rules. How I treat people, who I give second chances to, who I choose to despise, and who I choose to forgive is determined only by me. That line of crap you just layed out may work very well picking up whores with very little intellegence, even less self esteem, and no sense of morality or ethics, but when you are talking to me you better try a different tactic.

If you really want me to go over your argument piece by piece, let me know. I have to take a break for dinner and go walk the dog right now.



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--Some of us look for The Way in opium and some in God, some of us in whiskey and some in love. It is all the same Way and it leads nowhither.