Honesty doesn't equal bitchiness in my opinion. Honesty implies some kind of interest(I think) because it's easier simply to say what a customer(at a strip club) or a fan(in case you're a pw) wants to hear. "Bitchiness" per se is also alright, guys like girls with a spirit, but there is a thin line between "healthy" bitchiness and rudeness. Every time a girl was rude to me at a strip club I would loudly complain to the staff usually saying that I'd go to another place. Believe it or not only once have I actually left. In most cases I got an apology and a free drink.

Just my 2 cents.