lain, that really sucks. I guess no one's so smart that they never get taken advantage of. You just have to remove the people who are stupid enough to take advantage of you and replace them with people who are smart enough to work with you. Which you've done.

There aught to be an icon to represent the Gen Padova Award for a Good Job of Playing the Lousy Hand You Were Dealt. Named after the person who best exemplifies the quality. But for the time being, this will do. Go, girl!