Dom/Assertive, whatever.

I dig a dominant chick on occasion. One of my best friends is way into it. So much so that she can't seem to have it otherwise. She's shared stories with me and they're fucked up (and funny). Consequently, we've never taken it further than just fucking around. I think it'd be the end of it, otherwise.

I have another good friend that doms professionally, is into much crazier shit, and can just completely turn it off in the sack. Work is work, I guess.