I voted for the bj. i still like to fuck and whatnot, but I can't put a ton of effort into something that A) Might not be that good or B) Might not happen. The suck job is usually a lock....
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"I'll never forget the moment during the lovely Alyssa Allure's scene in 'American Bukkake' where the fellow got out of his wheel chair to ejaculate on her face. It was grotesque but had a certain frisson." -Sock