They can't identify where it started. He just got "run down and lost his appetite", thought he was fighting the flu. Went to doctor. Has cancer throughout his lymphatic system. Liver and kidney failure. Inoperable tumor larger than a softball on his colon though they don't say that's the source.

You derailed this thread from a shitty wedding thread but I guess this other baggage is what made it so shitty (for me and them) and no one else was participating anyway. Thanks for playing. Don't ride a horse in your wedding.