Dear jmac,
After reading your post, I'm quite sure you're not suffering from herpes. Your post shows all indications of
general paresis of the insane, also known as an advanced stage of a syphilis infection.
Whether or not you got the syphilis from Tanner Mayes is unknown. Further laboratory testing could provide more information on this.
Please report at the nearest CDC affiliate and bring the supposed 'patient zero' with you.
Thank you.