@pretty: What Gia said is the most accurate thing here, I'll paraphrase: What kind of loser parents are renting a small 1 bedroom apartment when they are raising a family of more than 1 child.
Kids don't just appear, they are a choice. Unwanted kids can be aborted or adopted (this second option might pose a problem for black children so pick option 1).
I have fathered kids before and we did the responsible thing and had the bastards killed.
I am still waiting for an argument against my position.
Having a huge family makes sense if you own a farm, not if you are renting a tiny apartment in a densely populated city.
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