As I was flicking through the channels I found myself stopping at a show called True life: Im celibate. It was made up of 3 people, an 20 something hostess who has a history of cheating on boyfriends so she decided she will be celibate to prove to herself she can respect her relationships ( ), some christian texan douche sho wants to be a role model to his friends and hopes to preach about it later in life, blah, BUTTTTTTT the one that was of interest to me was 22 year old Carlos. Carlos has been in a relationship for 2 years, he said they used to have sex everyday but for the last 5 months they havent done anything sexual. Interesting, well it turns out his girlfriend cheated on him and hes both crushed emotionally and fears stds equally, he read online that sometimes it takes upto 6 months for HIV to show on the tests, so the 6th month mark comes around they both get tested, both are clean but he still doesn't want to have sex with her. they were on their way to feed ducks bread in the park when she raised the issue, and he turned the car around, went back to his place got out of the car, went inside and locked the front door. Hes a troubled man. Here is his image, so you can put a face to the story.

http://www.mtv.com/photos/true-life-season-9/1542348/2539089/photo.jhtml