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Firstly, the premise in your first paragraph is invalid: "I know the vast majority of performers don't have the ability to think about the long term impact of their career choice, or the drugs they take push it to the back of their mind/s, but you are pulling the strings behind the scenes, you run what you shoot." So I can't answer something that is invalid, as showing only 1 girl who has her head on straight shows the invalidity of your first premise




Im not sure how my point was invaild. I said the vast majority, not all girls. It wouldn't be hard to believe that say 9/10 girls have little to no financial plan or even adequate savings. This isn't your probelm at all, but its a fact of the girls who perform (and males too). I use eva angelina as a fine example. Im unaware of her situation now, but during her first stint in porn she worked her ass off (no pun intended) and was probably on the fringe of top 20 status in terms of work load and fan base before leaving the business after her ex killed himself, within 2 months she was penniless and working at the olive garden . Before monstar comes here to refute these claims, these were words from her mouth, not mine.


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Do I regret my descision about entering porn? or shooting what I shoot? Not in the least. When I made my descision to go into porn, I was standing on the doorway of Rutgers Law School. I had just taken my pre Lsat's and had one semester left at Rutgers. I said to myself, "if I become an attorney, I will be somone's bitch for 10 years, and by the time I make partner, I will be in my late 40's. And, I wont be doing anything that's more moral than porn, so my descision was easy. The type of content I chose was part of my business plan, albeit I do prefer this type of content over, say, "Pirates."




Id say you picked the more honorable of the two professions thats for sure.

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, it's tough to imagine a girl will have any kind of issues after going through what we go through to get them here, all the legal jargon that is read, having them show us time stamps in a video of what they will be doing, and having them check off to "specific" sexual acts that they will or will not do, if they have any issues after that, that is not my problem



That is interesting, im surprised even after going through all of that some girls still want to do the scene . I know my post my come off as very captin save a ho and thats not what im getting at, its more your own feelings on the scenes you do and how it might change those you work with, more from your perspective than that of the girls who perform in it from their perspective, if that makes sense?

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That's like complaining about your job and the stress it caused you after all the orientation you went through: Phone ringing, pacakages going down the conveyor belt too fast, and then complaining months later? You knew, it's on you, and being that your first premise is invalid, therefore, it follows that your decisions are yours, and yours alone. Thus, you cant blame the mail man for the brown water in your glass at your most frequented place you eat.





hmm not really, unless you are physically and sexually abused at your place of work, then having that sold to people

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If I told you that you will be fisted in your ass, that it will wind up on the internet or dvd, or any commercial medium, be it known or unknown, AND THAT IT WILL BE PUBLISHED FOREVER, and, and you check a box that says "will you allow actors to fist your ass" and not to mention the phone conversation 4 days before you were booked of us reading the entire thing over the phone and giving you a password of someone else getting their ass fisted and on the release it says "explain to me in detail what happened at time stamp 21:31 on such and such video" is it really as you said, "another thing in itself?" Or am I just doing what I do and being very careful at what I do, and giving them every possible chance of saying "You know that's not for me." How many other directors do that. I should be heralded for my thoroughness and unwavering effort not to let externalities or deadlines occlude my due diligence as a director, and a person.



You go above and beyond the call of duty and im sure this is very interesting to a lot of people here (myself included) who now have a better understanding of how you run your operations. Is it wrong to find it oddly appealing the thought of negotiating people's sexual boundaries? Wouldn't be a bad bonus feature on your site having these taped phone coversations released. I know burg would love to hear ass-hanti saying for $150 more she'd be willing to do a DP but will not take a pie to the face no matter what the fee.

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currently live a happy life with someone who would be with me if I made 5 dollars an hour. She knows everything I do, and even worked for me as a bookkeeper, so she knows everything. I have to admit, I don't tell my neighbors, not because I am ashamed, but I know how mainstream media lumps all people who watch and produce porn like we are all a bunch of deviants and pedophiles. Yea, it gets a little hard at times to explaining to curious neighbors how I have a garage full of nice cars, but I just tell them I run an outsourcing call center in India. But, by now, after all I did for my community, my neighbors, who are now my friends, if they found out, so be it. What can you do. I'm always the one in city hall arguing with the town planners every time they try to put up a stupid strip mall in the woods behind my house, they know they can count on me to bring my team of angry Jewish lawyers to the table. So, smut maker or not, I do a lot for this neck of the woods, and a friendly wave from everyone in my development when I grab my mail is enough for me. If they start flipping me off, well, I guess they know I do porn. But when I told the guy who lives behind me, he didn't say "ewww" he said, "how do I get down with my own business." Needless to say, we have not been affected by the economy, so more people are open to making an honest buck. Now, one may say, "honest?" well, I put in 60-70 hours a week and pay more in taxes than 99% of the population. And I pay every dime. Which makes me a "productive citizen."




Im surprised that it is possible to have a healthy relationship outside of the porn industry, I take my hat (or hand iron mike) off to you. I also see your point on not wanting to tell others about your career choice, hell i was embarrassed to tell even my close friends that I was Daniel Day Lewis' personal assistant for the short time that I was, so I totally see your point there.


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As far as a normal life with the opposite sex? This is just a job man. When I'm out with my GF (most likley soon to be wife) we do things like go apple picking, and all kinds of regular stuff. We have a loving, caring, sensual relationship, and we can talk about anything, and always do. So, yea, I picture having kids with her, taking them fishing, and being a good dad and husband. As I said in other interviews or threads, Duke Skywalker is a character.



Is it though? I mean is it really that easy to separate yourself from the work?, thats basically my point, I mean if a pornstar cures cancer what do you think she'll be known as? or referred to in the news article. Its a rare profession that sticks with you long after you have finish with it. Its like the naked mob but in better shape.



Thanks for the lengthy answer, it might of come off as I was attacking you but I wasn't im just curious about the stuff I raised, and you didn't have to answer yourself to anyone here let alone me, but it is appreciated, love monkey.
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