The point? There is no point; the point is a lie. Someone claimed that the popularity of anal sex--especially in the porn industry--is related to destructive mental illness (thus the appeal of something supposedly so risky), ignorance, and social stigmas, but that's BULLSHIT. As I pointed out (but that wasn't a point: the ball circled the rim, I'm sorry to say).

Following is a quote which proves my basketball beyond a doubt: Anal sex has nothing whatsoever to do with sadism nor masochism.

http://www.abie.com/personal/NickiLewis/stories/anal.html
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He then insisted that I, bend over for him, and spread my arse cheeks with both hands, so that he could look at the damage he had done to my arsehole. He was absolutely delighted when he saw that he had split me in several places. he wanted to give me another spanking before he left, but I refused, claimed the rest of my money, including the extra for him coming in my mouth, and threw him out.

I spent half an hour in the bathroom cleaning up, washing myself over and over again, putting Savlon on my split and abused ring, and cleaning my teeth about five times.

I felt strangely elated, as if I had climbed Everest, or some other major achievement, and I went into the bedroom and putting a mirror on the floor I squatted over it examining my damaged arsehole, regarding the splits with an intense feeling of pride. I ended up frigging myself stupid, and giving myself about four or five orgasms.