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Beyond the addiction aspect this shows just how many emotional adolescents there are running around. These people are stunted. They have no concept of reality. Every decision they make is usually a bad one. Every week they are on their way to a club or restaurant since they just can't stand the thought of spending quiet time at home and confronting the ugly reality of who they are.




Ya' got me pegged pretty good here, circa fall of 1990. I don't watch this show, but that describes 99% of people coming into recovery. I posit that I stopped maturing when I started drinking alcoholically. Many others in recovery experienced the same thing.

To make it worse, the childish behavior is actually helpful as a way to get what we want (booze, etc.), so it gets reinforced. Then, in our early 30's if we are lucky like me, we have to sober up and find ourselves, that's why there are 12 steps instead of 1.

-Chuck, Vegetarian fanboy.
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