Here is what I don't understand about the OP:

If his own daughter, who has presumbly known him for her whole life, believes Desi over him, why in the hell we would believe the OP over Desi after five minutes of unverifiable, anonymous rants that really don't make any sense to begin with?

(Sorry for any spelling errors, Spell Check button says site's subscription to spellchecker.net has expired and I am too lazy to go elsewhere)