I ask because it would be my first time to participate in one of these and I'm going through a classic approach-avoidance conflict. If it's a slut that's my type and particularly attractive (Molly Rome comes to mind- sorry I missed that one) I would go for it; however, if it's a whore who is not my type, I'd be less inclined to show up.

On this same topic, is there any way to stay anonymous in these things? I mean, does everyone's face have to be shown or are some of the guys able to keep their faces off the screen?