Jim, you make no sense in this(^) post. (At least, not me.)

Renfield,
Calling a baby with Down syndrome a 'fucked up baby' strikes me as, well, ... pretty fucked up. You make an awful lot of judgments and assumptions. And not only in this thread. Is it time for a short break, maybe? Reflect on your life and your behaviour in your contacts with other people. Take some distance and take a long, good, critical look at yourself and what you say. It might be very enlightening. Just an idea.