I confess. I have tried numerous times in PM's here and myspace to get him/her to relax. No one that I know of here even knows his/her real name. So, to make fun of his/her screen name is something he/she shouldn't get so bent about. I've told him/her just to go with the flow of the board and he/she can enjoy it here. My advice has clearly fallen on deaf ears.

He/she might take this post as a slight but it's not meant to be. These days you just never know who's male or female online.

The least diplomatic person on this board (me) tried extending a helping hand to Darrah. Now I know why I stay undiplomatic.