thats silly
any stripper knows its just a numbers game
a girl customer wouldnt deter me from asking for dances
id just have another customer to hustle
but i wouldnt harass them or tell them sob stories
but i would keep asking periodically
dancings just like any sales job- its the law of averages
its a mathematical certainty that if you keep asking, you will get a dance
but i dont think these girls telling sob stories or harassing him sound like they understand the game very well
afterall, if you piss the guy off, no sale
and sitting and talking to the guy about your problems? does he mean, like, these girls sit with him for free? gross! that isnt gonna make you any money because your time is free if you do that
sounds like the strippers this guy is talking about dont know their jobs very well
you gotta ask, nicely, then move on
and if theres a date with the guy you just asked, ask her too
and if he says no and she says no, move on, and ask again later
sitting with a guy or a couple can be done, but only if theyre spending money on you
but honestly,it better be alot of money, because a dancer is always better off hustlingthe floor
even if a dude is paying you ten bucks a song, say, to just sit and chat, you could still be missing out on pitching a dance to that guy over there that might buy an hour of nudes (which where i work, for instance would net the dancer 640 dollars) by sitting with this guy for a measley ten bucks for five songs
this guy doesnt need a stripper blocker, which as ive explained wouldnt deter a real dancer at all, he oughta talk to his stripclub employee friends about better educating thier dancers on sales techniques