If all it takes is the presence of a woman to negate the gayness of two dicks snoodling together or a couple of ball sacs slapping against each other, then I ask at what point does this negation occur?

I'm assuming participation on the part of the girl, at least, is required and just being in the room watching wouldn't cross that magic not-gay-anymore line.

Sorry, not buying it.

If it would be gay when a girl is not there, then it's gay whether a girl is there or not.

The only hetero-acceptable male on male contact during a B/B/G is a high-five with a full-girl buffer in between.

IMHO