thank you all for your suggestions... last night the husband and i ended up having a huge fight over this trip, the end result of which was him calling me a stupid cunt ( ) and leaving this entire trip's planning up to me. apparently i'm a crackhead asshole retard. this may not be news to many of you. oh, and he said i just want to spend all of his money, every cent. this is because i nicely said i really didn't want to stay at the fucking holiday inn. so he's pissed. so i went out this morning and spent $350 on my hair, HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHHAAHAHAHAHA. please keep the advice coming. now i kind of want to make this the best vacation ever, just to further enrage him