Not so fast Gia.

The fact remains, SHE gave the guy her contact information and asked him to call HER. I seriously doubt his personality was much less offensive or different in person than on the phone. There must have been something about him that interested her when they met. Otherwise, she would not have voluntarily invited him to call her and provided her telephone number where she could be reached. If she had second thoughts now about meeting the guy, perhaps she ought to put her big girl panties on, return the call and tell him as much.

Women date obnoxious, arrogant men all the time for all kinds of reasons. There's no accounting for taste.