I think he was trying to be cheeky and get a response from you Holly. I only heard about "Cougars" from Mark Phillippoussis's show "Age of Love" - wasn't that where they invented the term? Like how "MILF" came from "American Pie" ? I've never heard anyone use these terms outside of these shows apart from in porn movies :-P I think its more about the look than your age and you definitely don't look old! And don't worry about turning 30!