this thread reminds me, i totally ran into my black orthodontist neighbor today . i sat in between him and the husband at the end-of-school-year choir performance at my kids' school. i kept waiting for the nuns to yell "blowbang!!!" no one did, of course, but the three year-old child of that crazy bitch with the fourteen kids did set off the fire alarm during the fourth grade's performance of "the recorder cha cha."