Getting fucking tired of the love/hate crap. If you stop talking about someone, they WILL fade away. The BEST thing that you can do if you "really" don't want to see the same damn fucking thing on a bulletin board/ chat/ whatever, is to STOP FUCKING talking about it.
Anyone know anything about "reinforcement?? Basically, the more you give someone ANY kind of attention, the more they come back for it. Doesn't matter if it's positive, or negative. Break the cycle, and begin the extinction of the behavior. Quit reinforcing the shit you SAY you don't want to see. The negative (DL) will go away. It's a fact. Look that shit up.
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If I wanted to hear a crazy cunt talk about her kids I would just go to a regular bar and talk to the single moms there instead. - Fiend