Ivor,

Tristan may have defended Christian, but I see no problem with that.

My gripe with women like Tristan is that they assume this mantle of being supposedly about sexual freedom but in fact are being enablers of the straight male fantasy. She's part of this group of women who have effectively surrendered their sexuality to the sleaszy straight guy fantasy. They've surrendered to a form of patriarchy, basically. Any woman who promotes the bisexual double standard does this.

Tristan ought to be shunned by the gay and bisexual community in general, the sooner the better.