If vanessa is a work, and it's certainly possible, the best possible conclusion is for he/she to post the best of the pms they received. Even if the account is valid those pms could cause maximum mayhem.

I am sure there are some "hard cases" here on xpt that might be embarrassed by a pm or two they may have sent v's way offering to meet for coffee and promising to bring some "roses".

What say you vanessa? I know you still read the board so post them up you tender flower.