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Lyf will keep goin on even after ur gone…

Lyf will keep goin on even after .… so get over it..

U ever live thru an experience or argue a side and not b able 2 understand how some1s view of the exact same thing is completely opposite of what ur version of reality was. This is why arguments, fights, discrepancies, lawsuits, wars, and ends happen. How does this come about?? I mean, is individual interpretation that far off?? I see something, say its black.. I guarantee someone will argue its dark blue. The one thing you can not argue over is a number…well until you put a $$$ sign in front of it, and then the magic math and individualistic creative accounting comes out in people. Is it ego, pride, selfishness, greed.. what makes this shit happen. I have always noticed this in many facets of lyf, especially in a relationship. Think back of your fights u have had over the yrs and all the different relationships.. u were adamant that u were correct and could justify ur rightness 100 ways from Sunday.. u were the holy Mother Theresa of arguers! Each fight u were sure u were correct.. right down to where u watched the door shut, the shadow close on the door and it was over. Stubbornness, I think is an essential root of this type of behavior.. I know I am extremely stubborn and filled with a lot of pride. I know what it takes to fix situations, but refuse to do it just out of plane obstinacy. Let's get back to the simple fact of how r the 2 sides so different in interpretation of the same event?? The saying that there 3 sides to every situation is sooo true_ my version, ur version, and the real version ( 99% mine) U ever play the telephone game when u were a kid.. people remember stuff differently. I know when I negotiate a biz deal, I have learned to ask frequently during the negotiation process for the opposing side to give me their elucidation of what we just agreed upon. WOW.. u would not believe how off from what u thought u all just spent hours and hours discussing and putting to paper! I make sure I explain my idea of what we are discussing thoroughly and when concluded leave nothing to interpretation. When u draft the paper…it always changes and then its open to the attorneys to delude to their own concepts and ideas! I really think selfishness controls some many people's actions. They care only about themselves and the preservation thereof. I try and help selflessly.. I think that is actually a flaw in this world. In today's society putting others needs in front of ur own is actually a character flaw. Crazy as u might think it is, it is true. How many times have u been w a selfish needy person and not paid attention to their needs for a second .. Helping some1 else (not even urself), and the wrath that soon follows because the psychic vampire feels neglected! Is this from insecurity?? I wonder what it would b like if people just had to be self sufficient, relying on themselves for attention, support, guidance, adoration, and comfort. I am a very self sufficient person; over the yrs I have learned to rely on myself for any type of emotional need. I find myself to become less and less sympathetic 2 people's desire for attention, attention out of neediness- not unsolicited.

Sorry, I just felt I I wanted to rant. This was not geared or targeted at any1 person, I hate when people think I am talking about a specific person or situation.. this is merely a generalization of all the people, LOL. I just got back from LA today. Went out there for meetings starting on Tuesday and also for the awards show. It was a crazy week, especially after Super Bowl. The craziest 4 days in Phoenix !! I don't even know where to begin on it so I will just skip the topic to protect the innocent (all 0 of them) I ma in Vegas for valentine's day and then I head to Australia for 2 wks. My schedule is slammed for the net few months. Have a great nyt.. I am gonna go play with the dogs…

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U ever live thru an experience
or argue a side and not b able 2 understand
how some1s view of the exact same thing is completely opposite
of what ur version of reality was.

This is why arguments, fights,
discrepancies, lawsuits, wars, and ends happen.

How does this come about??
I mean, is individual interpretation that far off??
I see something, say its black..
I guarantee someone will argue its dark blue.

The one thing you can not argue over is a number…
well until you put a $$$ sign in front of it,
and then the magic math and individualistic creative accounting comes out in people.

Is it ego, pride, selfishness, greed..
what makes this shit happen.
I have always noticed this in many facets of lyf,
especially in a relationship.

Think back of your fights u have had over the yrs and all the different relationships..
u were adamant that u were correct
and could justify ur rightness 100 ways from Sunday..

u were the holy Mother Theresa of arguers!
Each fight u were sure u were correct..
right down to where u watched the door shut,
the shadow close on the door and it was over.

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I feel like I'm reading the liner notes from a Prince album.

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