Monstar, my dear, and adorable, Yes I can set it that way. But I have avoided that because I didn't think I WOULD have too. I wanted people to be able to speak freely back and forth without waiting for me to have to click yes on every comment. So far leaving it totally open I have had few problems until now with this porn head person. With my OCD, It would be a really long and boring wait for me to make an actual decision if they could post or not, lol.
xoxo
Cindi